How I Went From Being a People Pleaser to Not Giving A RIP About What Anyone Else Thinks (and How You Can Too)

Jill Fosco • Sep 29, 2017

Like many people, I found great joy in putting a smile on other people’s faces — and still very much do — however for a while I knew something was missing.

 

It was as if I’d get really clear visions of who I am, what I’m here to do and get off to the races at 200 MPH then talk to the most well intentioned people about it, then find myself feeling creatively watered down and like I was compromising my initial clear stroke of my own personally curated divine inspiration.

 

Time passed, compromise happened and then I finally realized THE ONLY WAY to truly SHINE like the BRIGHT MO’ FO’ that I truly am is to be FULL throttle, ALL IN and consciously continuously connected with my Source/Creator/God (call “it” George if you’d like) daily — or as often as I needed to, to stay true to who I really was. 

 

This helped me stay super high vibe and in a state of crystal clear knowing and how to FOLLOW MY DIVINE GUIDANCE no. matter. what.

 

(And the wisdom to know the difference.) 

 

I chose to have trust and confidence that everything is unfolding perfectly and that I’m co-creating in every moment with the Divine. 

 

(Empowerment.)

 

I stopped sharing intimate details of my life with anyone who I felt would try to talk me out of what felt RIGHT AF to me, or discourage me, or judge me, or put me in a box they felt comfortable to have me in… 

 

(Loose lips can sink ships so choose your words and posse wisely.)

 

I actively spent more time incorporating and prioritizing MY version of JOY and BLISS into my life – DAILY

 

(High vibes lift the world.) 

 

I stopped needing to see things unfold in a particular way to be happy and instead decided to be a “happy learner” and let GOD lead and figure things out FOR ME while I pat my own self on the back — instead of needing anyone else to do that for me.

 

(Insert unconditional love.) 

 

I certainly would never claim to have it all figured out however I do feel FREE and happy to be the ever unfolding best version of myself God created me to be as much as I humanly can and I’m LOVING it.

 

(My wish is that you are too.)

 

Here’s a Few Helpful Tips for Not Giving a RIP About What Anyone Else Thinks:

  1. CHOOSE YOUR SOUL FAMILY/POSSE WISELY AF
  2. PRACTICE NOT GIVING A RIP WHAT ANYONE THINKS AND LOOK INWARD TO YOUR OWN CLEAR GUIDANCE MORE OFTEN INSTEAD OF ANYONE OR ANYTHING OUTSIDE OF YOU
  3. ALWAYS KEEP YOUR ATTITUDE AND VIBRATION AS HIGH AS POSSIBLE. It effects everything. Joy is CONTAGIOUSand serves EVERYONE. 

 

CLICK HERE for access to my soul based guided meditation “Manifest More Miracles” that can help you get clear and hear your inner divine knowing.

 

I hope this serves YOU!


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Sending you SO MUCH LOVE always! 

 

Jill 


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